How to Deal with Neighbors

Dated: February 7 2025

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When you have neighbors, various issues can arise, ranging from disagreements over fences or trees to noise, construction, dogs, etc. How you handle potential problems can make the difference between friend and foe. So, where do you begin?
Be proactive—Many would-be issues don’t become so if you are already friendly with your neighbor, which promotes open communication. So, if new neighbors move in, introduce yourself. Attend or organize community events (e.g., a street potluck or BBQ). If you are planning a loud construction project, let them know beforehand before handing it out – Nonetheless, issues can still arise, and the best thing to do is to talk to them about it. Don’t assume their actions are malicious or disrespectful without talking to them calmly. Think about what you are trying to solve, the actions you would like to see, and the compromises you would be willing to make before speaking with them. If they come to you with an issue, listen calmly, avoid being defensive, and focus on a solution. Try to find common ground.

Consider a third party – If talking it out isn’t working, consider involving a property manager if you are in a condo, a mediator (look into free community programs that offer mediation for neighbor disputes in your area), a bylaw officer, or a lawyer (for the US use attorney instead of lawyer).
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